Think of Masto more as a small party you can hang out and chat with people in, rather than a sprawling public gathering you need to stand out or act a certain way in. A big part of the fun of this place is the autonomy to be yourself and feel safe expressing yourself and what you love. :3
snouts.online is a friendly, furry-oriented, lgbtq+, generally leftist, 18+ sex-positive community that runs on mastodon, the open-source social network technology. you don't need a snout to join, but it's recommended!
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