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m a n being afab and enby just feels like literally everyone's telling me to sit down and shut up all the time
not trans enough, not woman enough, not man enough, not queer enough. too loud tho. just not enough for anything, and obviously ~just doing this to be different~
no one ever says it directly but the implications are....woof.
I'M VALID AND EVERYONE CAN STFU.
re: gender feels - Show more
@Inazuma I keep fearing this and it's one of the reasons I stick with what I'm more and more considering 'Default' pronouns.
Anyone who gets to know me quickly realizes that there's very little about me that's any kind of Normal. But I do feel not queer enough, or not... Whatever enough on the regular.
If it helps, remember that you're the real You inside, and life is the process of making the Outside resemble the Inside better.
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