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"Not totally trans" sounds like how I was talking about myself for the last 18 months.

I've been calling myself agender for the last six months. :)

(Here's what I wrote about coming out: hollymath.dreamwidth.org/99637)

@error_1202 Thanks a lot for sharing that! Having a trans brother I have a good idea of the problematic and mindset of being trans, but for fuzzier gender definitions and expressions I'm more or less clueless to be honest. Hopefully exploring and talking to people can give me a more grounded idea of these things!

@furkachi
Yeah I have a bunch of trans friends and I knew my experience wasn't like theirs and didn't want to step on their toes. But it turns out that didn't make me cis after all (I thought it did, for a long time). :)

@error_1202 Yeeeeeaaah, I'm actually quite terrified to mention it to my brother for the exact same reason. Saying I'm non-cis feels real weird but that's really a label issue so it's going to be mostly getting accustomed to it I suppose (also when I say non-cis I immediately think trans woman and since I'm pretty sure that's not who I am it just feels strange saying it)

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